Will 2010 be ‘Business as Usual’ for You?

When you look back on the past decade, what do you say about yourself?

Honestly? Many people would respond, “I spent my time waiting, whining, worrying, and wishing.”

Case in point:

 While many companies waited for (and are still waiting for) the economy to rebound, Reebok launched Travel Trainers, a lightweight, packable sneaker – sold in Japan from airport vending machines.

While American auto-makers whined about high gas prices for the dearth of gas-guzzling SUVs they produced, Honda built the Pilot, a car that looks like an SUV but gets twice the gas mileage.

While you’ve been waiting for the muse to strike so you can start something amazing, thousands of entrepreneurs have launched successful small businesses.

•  What’s your biggest regret about the 2000s?
•  What do you wish you had started, joined, invested in, or built?
• Do you wish you’d at least had the courage to try?

Here’s a challenge for you for the new decade:

Find ideas that matter and to share them. Push yourself and those around you to demonstrate gratitude, insight, and inspiration. Take risks.

Choose optimism. Choose action. Choose excellence. Don’t be satisfied with “business as usual.” Do “business as unusual.”

With thanks to Seth Godin. This article is adapted from his book, Small is the New Big, pp. 256-259. Seth’s words inject me with the courage to do business as unusual.

Laura Christianson owns Blogging Bistro (www.bloggingbistro.com), a company that helps businesses and individuals enhance their Internet presence through Web sites, blogs, and social media marketing (particularly Twitter and Facebook).

She’s the author of three books and particularly enjoys mentoring emerging writers and teaching at Christian writers’ conferences. Laura lives with her husband and their two teenage sons in the Seattle area.

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Words to Live By

It’s the beginning of a new decade and I can feel a tsunami of wants, desires, and dreams roiling just beneath the surface. So I’m taking Chris Brogan’s advice: Pick 3 words for 2010.

“I’ve practiced something I call “my 3 words,” where I come up with three words that I use as guidance for how I should conduct my efforts in the year to come. I set goals around these three words. I build deadlines and projects around these words. They don’t have to mean anything to you, but the process might prove interesting to you, especially if you’ve found goal-setting difficult in the past.”

I stepped away for a while and gave  myself time to unearth them from the coffers of my subconscious, where, no doubt, they’ve been slumbering for who knows how long. Slowly, over the course of the morning, they popped into my mind, one at a time, like the burst of flavour on your tongue when you bite into a juicy fruit gum.

So, without further ado, here are my 3 words for 2010: Freedom, Unique, Authentic.

Where to go from here? Well, I can erect a few signposts to help me on my journey. Here’s one:

Gifts to myself:

• sing when I feel like it, without giggling behind my hand and muttering, “oh…dear” immediately afterward.
• laugh more often, especially for no reason. In other words, take life less seriously.
• be grateful for every breath I take, every delicious moment on this earth.
• write every day, without editing, judgment, or walls. Allow the creative process to unfold willy-nilly, unburdened by the voice that stifles.
• play with my voice; i.e., the spoken word, as well as the written one. Allow my authentic voice to ring out, loud and clear. Take a page from Edith Bouvier Beale, who played with her uniqueness and therefore remained a child forever. (I’ll take the best parts of her and throw away the weird stuff.)

So, that’s it for now. Maybe I won’t take life so darned seriously in this brand spanking new decade. And maybe I’ll be more open to whatever crops up for me. Resistance is futile, anyway, so I might as well throw my arms wide and enjoy the ride.

Photo:  robinsan

Let Your Dreams Fly

Like most people, I’m feeling a definite itch to do something big in 2010. There, I’ve said it. The sky didn’t fall in, the applecart wasn’t turned over, and I’m still standing. At the beginning of a new decade, I feel like the world is waiting…waiting for me to make a change, take a stance, push beyond self-imposed limits. Well, ok, the world doesn’t give a rip, but I do.

So, I’m going to let my dreams fly. In order to receive all that I’ve ever dreamed of, I have to let go of the old, though. Open my tightly clenched hands in order to receive the new. The unexplored, the undiscovered, in short.

Wheeeee….I can’t wait for January 1st….

Photo:  Ү

Train Your Brain

“The more you learn and develop the capacity to listen to your heart, the more you figure out who you are…discover yourself.”

“We can change our lives. We can do, have, and be exactly what we wish.” – Anon

“Your life is a reflection of what you desire”….. CWG

“Your personal answer to the question, “Who are you?” is very critical to your success, distinction, and influence in life.”

Like manna from heaven, Cheryl Richardson’s blog post, entitled, “Master Your Mind,” fell from the sky and landed in my inbox this morning. She poses the question:  “Are You a Worryah or a Warrior?” (Cute – and the timing couldn’t be better.) She outlines four simple ways of dealing with the demon Worryah.

“1.  Make a decision, right now, to become a Warrior.  All positive change begins with a decision – a choice to rise up to a whole new way of being in the world.  So, if you tend to be a Worryah, make a decision to take charge of the most powerful creative tool you own:  your beautiful mind. 

2.  Let your body lead. When you start to ruminate about something, catch yourself and immediately move your body in an outrageous way.   I know, I know.  This might sound a bit crazy, but stay with me.  Do something wacky with your body. 

3.  See yourself as a Warrior.  Take a few moments to find an imagine of yourself as a Warrior. (I chose Robin Hood – a stretch, I know, but he really does embody a take charge attitude.)

4.  Do something for someone else.  Sometimes the fastest way to shift from “Worryah to Warrior” is to get out of your own head by giving support to someone else.”

“While worrying is a normal human behavior, you can limit the amount of time you spend in this suffering state by choosing to do something different.” 

Great tips, but can they really change my life? Do you know what I’m going through right now?! I can hear you asking.

I know, I’m going through a spot of trouble, myself, at the moment. And these drop-your-face-in-your-hands moments come along, every now and again, right out of left field. But the point that Cheryl is making is that we each have the power within ourselves to train our brain in order to change our attitudes.

In other words, it’s a choice, like everything else in life. So, to get me through the next few hours, days, weeks, months or years, with a positive attitude, I’ll need to get proactive. Laugh, even when I don’t feel like it. Smile at the dog, dance around my livingroom, and do some volunteer work for a local nonprofit organization.

Or, watch people like Susan Boyle, who teaches us that anything is possible if we trust in our gifts and don’t give a hang what other people think.

We Attract Who We Are

I stumbled across a blog post about a basic law of the universe: we attract who we are. According to the author,

“Positive persons are:

• Committed to developing compassion towards themselves and others, and having an open heart
• Courageous about following their dreams
•  Those who seek to be authentic and believe in themselves, even when externals are crumbling
• Aware of their darkside, and are trying to heal it
• Willing to learn from mistakes

 Positive persons aren’t:

• Perfect, phony, or positive all the time
• Beating themselves to a pulp over shortcomings or a black hole of pessimism
• Constantly mired in fear or tolerant of letting their hearts harden.
• Squeaky clean do-gooders who neglect their own well-being.
• Saccharine pleasers who ignore their darkside and unconsciously act it out at the expense of others.”

Bulls-eye. It hit me right between the eyes, and came to me at the perfect time.

Today, I made a decision to change my life. Not a life-altering, seismic shift in my life, but rather, a change in the way I think.

In short, I am going to do what I want. No one else will care, but I will. And so, I am packing up my kit bag and going on the road. Nothing like Jack Kerouac, mind you, who is best known for his book, On the Road. More like Laura Ingalls Wilder, who waited until she was in her 60s before daring to show anyone her manuscript.

Well, I’m not in my 60s, but close enough. Close enough to retirement that an inner voice, today, rose up in terror – or could it be I’m just plain sick-and- tired of letting my dream of writing a novel rise up in the air and drift away, like a child’s prized balloon? – and demanded to be heard.

If we attract who we are, then it stands to reason that I need to get proactive. That is, spend time actually writing.

Another blog post came my way, with a great waving of arms in the air, shouting to me that journaling is the best way to practice the art of writing.

“Perfect!”, I thought. In hindsight, I realize this is the reason I created this blog in the first place.

If I am to attract who I am, then let’s get on with it. Commit to my dream, take tiny steps each day to move it forward, and voila! According to the law of attraction, I will attract only positive, like-minded people into my orbit.

What about you? What’s your dream? What have you kept under lock and key, too afraid to show to anyone but Izzie, your pet Iguana?